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		<title>By: Sean Butler</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sean Butler</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 21:09:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I made sure I was careful, I new someone known for helping start-up s and then when an ounce of cash comes in asking for all becuz they believe they are the sole propietor.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I made sure I was careful, I new someone known for helping start-up s and then when an ounce of cash comes in asking for all becuz they believe they are the sole propietor.</p>
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		<title>By: Bruce T</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bruce T</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Nov 2008 01:27:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think it&#039;s great advice for everyone... especially those who have tried and failed at the internet startup game.

Best,
Bruce
http://www.perfectbusiness.com/business-planning-software.cfm</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think it&#8217;s great advice for everyone&#8230; especially those who have tried and failed at the internet startup game.</p>
<p>Best,<br />
Bruce<br />
<a href="http://www.perfectbusiness.com/business-planning-software.cfm" rel="nofollow">http://www.perfectbusiness.com.....ftware.cfm</a></p>
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		<title>By: David</title>
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		<dc:creator>David</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Oct 2008 22:46:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Although most banks want to help entrepreneurs fund and expand their businesses, their primary responsibility is to make money from the loans and minimize their risk. Just because you have a great idea and are motivated to see it through, you may not get a loan. In fact, banks are very careful with innovation; they are conservative institutions that lend to tried-and-true businesses. Whenever you submit your business proposal, always ask yourself, “What would make this a good deal for the bank? What assurances (aside from my good credit and great idea) can I give to the bank so it will get its money back plus interest?”

http://gewdir.com Information on Loans with Bad Credit Blog</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Although most banks want to help entrepreneurs fund and expand their businesses, their primary responsibility is to make money from the loans and minimize their risk. Just because you have a great idea and are motivated to see it through, you may not get a loan. In fact, banks are very careful with innovation; they are conservative institutions that lend to tried-and-true businesses. Whenever you submit your business proposal, always ask yourself, “What would make this a good deal for the bank? What assurances (aside from my good credit and great idea) can I give to the bank so it will get its money back plus interest?”</p>
<p><a href="http://gewdir.com" rel="nofollow">http://gewdir.com</a> Information on Loans with Bad Credit Blog</p>
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		<title>By: Clia Waived</title>
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		<dc:creator>Clia Waived</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Apr 2008 16:49:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The problem I run into, is when the boss is less than communicative and pulls the rug out from under you at the last minute on projects.  Without even telling you he wants a different direction..just &quot;WHAM&quot; I had someone else work up a design while I was riding you for one....

Feels like being a gladiator at times.....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The problem I run into, is when the boss is less than communicative and pulls the rug out from under you at the last minute on projects.  Without even telling you he wants a different direction..just &#8220;WHAM&#8221; I had someone else work up a design while I was riding you for one&#8230;.</p>
<p>Feels like being a gladiator at times&#8230;..</p>
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		<title>By: Dawud Miracle</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dawud Miracle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Nov 2007 12:10:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Sam,&lt;/strong&gt;
Great point. I&#039;m, personally, don&#039;t want to add employees to my business. Yet working with other &#039;contractors&#039; gives me the opportunity to get help for my continually growing business while better managing my overhead.

&lt;strong&gt;Auto Loan,&lt;/strong&gt;
Thanks. The key I&#039;ve found is to make it first about the relationship with the people you work with. By focusing on the relationship you can build the trust needed to turn some of your business over to others.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Sam,</strong><br />
Great point. I&#8217;m, personally, don&#8217;t want to add employees to my business. Yet working with other &#8216;contractors&#8217; gives me the opportunity to get help for my continually growing business while better managing my overhead.</p>
<p><strong>Auto Loan,</strong><br />
Thanks. The key I&#8217;ve found is to make it first about the relationship with the people you work with. By focusing on the relationship you can build the trust needed to turn some of your business over to others.</p>
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		<title>By: Auto Loan Guy</title>
		<link>http://dmiracle.com/conversation/be-careful-who-you-ask-for-help-with-your-business/comment-page-1/#comment-14428</link>
		<dc:creator>Auto Loan Guy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Nov 2007 22:18:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, it&#039;s very difficult to find good help for web designers, employees, contractors, or any other person you hire to do work for you.  That just comes along with being an entrepreneur or a business owner.

This post gives great guidelines for avoiding mistakes in the hiring process, and helping you find quality people from the get go.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, it&#8217;s very difficult to find good help for web designers, employees, contractors, or any other person you hire to do work for you.  That just comes along with being an entrepreneur or a business owner.</p>
<p>This post gives great guidelines for avoiding mistakes in the hiring process, and helping you find quality people from the get go.</p>
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		<title>By: Sam Freedoms Internet Marketing Controversy Blog</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sam Freedoms Internet Marketing Controversy Blog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Nov 2007 20:09:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good advice, for starters.

To add to Rich Schefren&#039;s suggestion, being an outsourcer himself, a person could recruit using a company like administaff.  They&#039;re trained from A-to-Z in recruiting for any position.  Anyone they find can be signed as an independent contractor rather than an employee.

Why reinvent the wheel...

I think that if you recruit outsourced work through the framework of &quot;worker seeking employment&quot;, first, you get a different mindset than some lazy hack who thinks setting up an account at elance makes him a pro.

The former already intends to prove him or herself from the outset.  Whereas the freelancer usually catches victims unawares by starting off with a low price.

Cheers,
Sam</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good advice, for starters.</p>
<p>To add to Rich Schefren&#8217;s suggestion, being an outsourcer himself, a person could recruit using a company like administaff.  They&#8217;re trained from A-to-Z in recruiting for any position.  Anyone they find can be signed as an independent contractor rather than an employee.</p>
<p>Why reinvent the wheel&#8230;</p>
<p>I think that if you recruit outsourced work through the framework of &#8220;worker seeking employment&#8221;, first, you get a different mindset than some lazy hack who thinks setting up an account at elance makes him a pro.</p>
<p>The former already intends to prove him or herself from the outset.  Whereas the freelancer usually catches victims unawares by starting off with a low price.</p>
<p>Cheers,<br />
Sam</p>
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		<title>By: Dawud Miracle</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dawud Miracle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2007 20:03:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Jill,&lt;/strong&gt;
It&#039;s great you found me in &lt;a href=&quot;http://dawudmiracle.stumbleupon.com/&quot;&gt;StumbleUpon&lt;/a&gt;. Sounds like you&#039;ve been through the wringer. I still can&#039;t understand why business owners treat their clients this way and believe they can stay in business.

God speed to you. And let me know if I can help in any way.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Jill,</strong><br />
It&#8217;s great you found me in <a href="http://dawudmiracle.stumbleupon.com/">StumbleUpon</a>. Sounds like you&#8217;ve been through the wringer. I still can&#8217;t understand why business owners treat their clients this way and believe they can stay in business.</p>
<p>God speed to you. And let me know if I can help in any way.</p>
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		<title>By: Jill</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jill</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Nov 2007 19:54:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is the 1st site I have Stumbledupon since I just joined. It is a testament to Stumble that they found me the perfect site so quickly.  I am coming from the &#039;burned client&#039; side and I have lost a year of building the business because it has taken so much to get such a simple site working well, or well enough. Still the backend programming on the database is so full of bandaids that I currently am asking for proposals from two database programmers to write a whole new site and I will just ditch the one I have.  The main problem - the person bidding on the project was a salesman and not a programmer, the programmer doing wasnt getting all the right information after the project manager filtered it and the owner of the company didnt want to start over and instead threw good money after bad once he fired a programmer who had time management issues....  

So, I am hoping to do better this time around because I want my consultants to have the best resource they can have for getting new business.

I would love emails with ideas and/or input.  I will give out 25 free memberships too if anyone emails me for the promo code through the contact form on the site.

Thanks, Jill
www.jillsconsultantlist.com</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is the 1st site I have Stumbledupon since I just joined. It is a testament to Stumble that they found me the perfect site so quickly.  I am coming from the &#8216;burned client&#8217; side and I have lost a year of building the business because it has taken so much to get such a simple site working well, or well enough. Still the backend programming on the database is so full of bandaids that I currently am asking for proposals from two database programmers to write a whole new site and I will just ditch the one I have.  The main problem &#8211; the person bidding on the project was a salesman and not a programmer, the programmer doing wasnt getting all the right information after the project manager filtered it and the owner of the company didnt want to start over and instead threw good money after bad once he fired a programmer who had time management issues&#8230;.  </p>
<p>So, I am hoping to do better this time around because I want my consultants to have the best resource they can have for getting new business.</p>
<p>I would love emails with ideas and/or input.  I will give out 25 free memberships too if anyone emails me for the promo code through the contact form on the site.</p>
<p>Thanks, Jill<br />
<a href="http://www.jillsconsultantlist.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.jillsconsultantlist.com</a></p>
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		<title>By: Dawud Miracle</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dawud Miracle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Oct 2007 14:06:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Marko,&lt;/strong&gt;
Sounds like we have a lot in common. I give my clients as much as I can in the time we work together.

&lt;strong&gt;Rebecca,&lt;/strong&gt;
I&#039;ve seen this problem too. Do you think the lack of performance will eventually catch up with their reputations?

&lt;strong&gt;Living,&lt;/strong&gt;
Absolutely. I see anyone we work with as the building of a relationship - be it a consultant, design, employee or auto mechanic. Regardless of someone&#039;s reputation, we should feel comfortable with them, their honesty, their integrity and their willingness to help us, don&#039;t you think?

&lt;strong&gt;Thomas,&lt;/strong&gt;
Without a doubt. Any tips on how to evaluate the clarity of communication between people?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Marko,</strong><br />
Sounds like we have a lot in common. I give my clients as much as I can in the time we work together.</p>
<p><strong>Rebecca,</strong><br />
I&#8217;ve seen this problem too. Do you think the lack of performance will eventually catch up with their reputations?</p>
<p><strong>Living,</strong><br />
Absolutely. I see anyone we work with as the building of a relationship &#8211; be it a consultant, design, employee or auto mechanic. Regardless of someone&#8217;s reputation, we should feel comfortable with them, their honesty, their integrity and their willingness to help us, don&#8217;t you think?</p>
<p><strong>Thomas,</strong><br />
Without a doubt. Any tips on how to evaluate the clarity of communication between people?</p>
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		<title>By: Thomas Sinfield</title>
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		<dc:creator>Thomas Sinfield</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Oct 2007 00:41:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Communication is so important when chosing someone to work with. If you can&#039;t communicate there is always going to be problems.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Communication is so important when chosing someone to work with. If you can&#8217;t communicate there is always going to be problems.</p>
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		<title>By: Living Room Furniture</title>
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		<dc:creator>Living Room Furniture</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Oct 2007 13:30:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>All of you have added interesting insights, but one still has to guard against unforseen stumbling blocks. After all there is no alternative to carefully checking out exactly who you are hiring in terms of quality, experience and cost efficiency.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>All of you have added interesting insights, but one still has to guard against unforseen stumbling blocks. After all there is no alternative to carefully checking out exactly who you are hiring in terms of quality, experience and cost efficiency.</p>
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		<title>By: Rebecca</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rebecca</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Oct 2007 12:54:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I 100% agree.

However, another side to the point is when a new company hires people because of their &quot;name&quot;...to try to ride up the ladder based on the contacts that person is known to have in the community.   I&#039;ve have had to deal with a number of these types of hires in my last job.  And without fail, once they know they are hired for their name, getting any sort of usable work from them just is not going to happen.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I 100% agree.</p>
<p>However, another side to the point is when a new company hires people because of their &#8220;name&#8221;&#8230;to try to ride up the ladder based on the contacts that person is known to have in the community.   I&#8217;ve have had to deal with a number of these types of hires in my last job.  And without fail, once they know they are hired for their name, getting any sort of usable work from them just is not going to happen.</p>
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		<title>By: Marko Novak</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marko Novak</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Oct 2007 05:56:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m a web designer and I must say these bad designers really make us look like we are some kind of a thieves. 

I always try to help my clients as much as  I can. There is no job where I don&#039;t give 100% of my knowledge.

All my clients are generally happy and pleased with my work, so I consider myself as a good designer.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m a web designer and I must say these bad designers really make us look like we are some kind of a thieves. </p>
<p>I always try to help my clients as much as  I can. There is no job where I don&#8217;t give 100% of my knowledge.</p>
<p>All my clients are generally happy and pleased with my work, so I consider myself as a good designer.</p>
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		<title>By: Dawud Miracle</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dawud Miracle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Oct 2007 05:57:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Andy,&lt;/strong&gt;
I&#039;m the same way. I turn business away as well. Sometimes people will just work better with someone else. And when I do work with a client, I take on the role of a partner during our contract and some business owners just aren&#039;t ready for that level of relationship yet. But boy does it work to build business.

&lt;strong&gt;Howie,&lt;/strong&gt;
Yeah, exactly. Whenever there&#039;s a service involved, the relationship becomes paramount. And I don&#039;t think many business owners consider that as much. Do you?

&lt;strong&gt;Carol,&lt;/strong&gt;
Of course you&#039;re welcome. I think the important piece of what you said was &#039;get me.&#039; As a client, you need your service provider to really get you...to understand you, your needs, how you think, how you work, what you can manage and how you communicate. In other words, you need a relationship.

&lt;strong&gt;Lori,&lt;/strong&gt;
Yes, oh yes, oh yes! It is about getting out of yourself to serve the needs of the client. Yes! I think you have to know what&#039;s going on in their heads to do great work for them. Music to my ears.

&lt;strong&gt;Mark,&lt;/strong&gt;
(welcome back...long time, no see)

I hear you. There is a lot of hype out there. That&#039;s another reason I&#039;m so focused on the relationship end of things. If the relationship&#039;s solid between the client and business owner, then the client can trust more of what the business owner is saying. That way, hype can become reality.

As for your question...

Remember, the consultant is a person. It might be possible to have a conversation around more effective ways to help out. You don&#039;t want to &#039;dog&#039; the consultant, yet you want to help them understand how to be more effective.

If that doesn&#039;t work - and it may not - talk to the person who hired them and be honest about your concerns. As co-workers for their feedback. Perhaps the consultant simply isn&#039;t a good fit for the temperament of the people in a business. That needs to be clearly articulated to those who hired them. 

If that still doesn&#039;t work, try to have the conversation with the consultant and the boss - and maybe even the whole team involved. Don&#039;t team up on the consultant. And yet you want to express how the team could work better with the consultant. Find common ground - don&#039;t get in a rock tossing match.

If all else fails, know that the consultant is likely temporary and go about your work as best you can without worrying too much. But I&#039;d recommend trying to communicate first. Perhaps the consultant feels the same way.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Andy,</strong><br />
I&#8217;m the same way. I turn business away as well. Sometimes people will just work better with someone else. And when I do work with a client, I take on the role of a partner during our contract and some business owners just aren&#8217;t ready for that level of relationship yet. But boy does it work to build business.</p>
<p><strong>Howie,</strong><br />
Yeah, exactly. Whenever there&#8217;s a service involved, the relationship becomes paramount. And I don&#8217;t think many business owners consider that as much. Do you?</p>
<p><strong>Carol,</strong><br />
Of course you&#8217;re welcome. I think the important piece of what you said was &#8216;get me.&#8217; As a client, you need your service provider to really get you&#8230;to understand you, your needs, how you think, how you work, what you can manage and how you communicate. In other words, you need a relationship.</p>
<p><strong>Lori,</strong><br />
Yes, oh yes, oh yes! It is about getting out of yourself to serve the needs of the client. Yes! I think you have to know what&#8217;s going on in their heads to do great work for them. Music to my ears.</p>
<p><strong>Mark,</strong><br />
(welcome back&#8230;long time, no see)</p>
<p>I hear you. There is a lot of hype out there. That&#8217;s another reason I&#8217;m so focused on the relationship end of things. If the relationship&#8217;s solid between the client and business owner, then the client can trust more of what the business owner is saying. That way, hype can become reality.</p>
<p>As for your question&#8230;</p>
<p>Remember, the consultant is a person. It might be possible to have a conversation around more effective ways to help out. You don&#8217;t want to &#8216;dog&#8217; the consultant, yet you want to help them understand how to be more effective.</p>
<p>If that doesn&#8217;t work &#8211; and it may not &#8211; talk to the person who hired them and be honest about your concerns. As co-workers for their feedback. Perhaps the consultant simply isn&#8217;t a good fit for the temperament of the people in a business. That needs to be clearly articulated to those who hired them. </p>
<p>If that still doesn&#8217;t work, try to have the conversation with the consultant and the boss &#8211; and maybe even the whole team involved. Don&#8217;t team up on the consultant. And yet you want to express how the team could work better with the consultant. Find common ground &#8211; don&#8217;t get in a rock tossing match.</p>
<p>If all else fails, know that the consultant is likely temporary and go about your work as best you can without worrying too much. But I&#8217;d recommend trying to communicate first. Perhaps the consultant feels the same way.</p>
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		<title>By: Mark Goodyear</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mark Goodyear</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Oct 2007 20:36:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great thoughts in these comments.

I&#039;m thinking two things: First, it&#039;s hard to recognize the hype since so much of what&#039;s happening in social media is new and untested. Sometimes something sounds plausible, but isn&#039;t. Sometimes folks with lots of experience have lost their edge.

But what about the folks &lt;i&gt;who don&#039;t get to choose&lt;/i&gt; who the company hires? What if we are stuck with a consultant that is causing problems. That&#039;s a solution I&#039;d really like to hear someone address.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great thoughts in these comments.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m thinking two things: First, it&#8217;s hard to recognize the hype since so much of what&#8217;s happening in social media is new and untested. Sometimes something sounds plausible, but isn&#8217;t. Sometimes folks with lots of experience have lost their edge.</p>
<p>But what about the folks <i>who don&#8217;t get to choose</i> who the company hires? What if we are stuck with a consultant that is causing problems. That&#8217;s a solution I&#8217;d really like to hear someone address.</p>
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		<title>By: Lori</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lori</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Oct 2007 15:38:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent article! It&#039;s applicable to so many areas, too. I find this process helpful in choosing whether to take on new clients. I think too often people think offering services is slapping on a solution. It&#039;s not - it&#039;s getting inside the head of your client and delivering their vision, not your own.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent article! It&#8217;s applicable to so many areas, too. I find this process helpful in choosing whether to take on new clients. I think too often people think offering services is slapping on a solution. It&#8217;s not &#8211; it&#8217;s getting inside the head of your client and delivering their vision, not your own.</p>
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		<title>By: Carol L. Skolnick, Clear Life Solutions</title>
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		<dc:creator>Carol L. Skolnick, Clear Life Solutions</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Oct 2007 05:04:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If you&#039;ve read the &quot;case histories&quot; section of this website, then you know that Dawud&#039;s the one who bailed me out of a bad web design esperience. As for coaching, I&#039;ve been very happy with my on-again, off-again relationship with my coach. It&#039;s so important to me to be able to work with people who are not only brilliant, supportive, honest, and visionary, but who also &quot;get&quot; me. That kind of chemistry has been elusive in the past. I&#039;ve hit the jackpot with these two, and I am eternally grateful! Thanks D!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you&#8217;ve read the &#8220;case histories&#8221; section of this website, then you know that Dawud&#8217;s the one who bailed me out of a bad web design esperience. As for coaching, I&#8217;ve been very happy with my on-again, off-again relationship with my coach. It&#8217;s so important to me to be able to work with people who are not only brilliant, supportive, honest, and visionary, but who also &#8220;get&#8221; me. That kind of chemistry has been elusive in the past. I&#8217;ve hit the jackpot with these two, and I am eternally grateful! Thanks D!</p>
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		<title>By: Howie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Howie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Oct 2007 01:41:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So true. We&#039;ll end up blaming ourselves for not checking their tasks and for hiring that certain person without considering their personality and attitude.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So true. We&#8217;ll end up blaming ourselves for not checking their tasks and for hiring that certain person without considering their personality and attitude.</p>
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		<title>By: Andy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Andy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Oct 2007 18:31:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have a small &quot;boutique&quot; agency.  One thing that I have seen around our market is the large agencies are really burning people out.  They have charged them so much money for so little and as soon as they hear you are an &quot;agency&quot; it&#039;s over before it begins.  By doing a quality job, charging a &quot;fair&quot; price and always have your client&#039;s best interest in mind it key. I have had to let clients go because I felt I wasn&#039;t able to help them.  I would send them down the road rather than take their money and not perform.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a small &#8220;boutique&#8221; agency.  One thing that I have seen around our market is the large agencies are really burning people out.  They have charged them so much money for so little and as soon as they hear you are an &#8220;agency&#8221; it&#8217;s over before it begins.  By doing a quality job, charging a &#8220;fair&#8221; price and always have your client&#8217;s best interest in mind it key. I have had to let clients go because I felt I wasn&#8217;t able to help them.  I would send them down the road rather than take their money and not perform.</p>
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