Thanks. I’m in the middle of a new direction in my business. Not so much a new business, more of being more visible about what I actually do for my clients.

Hey, I’m enjoying your blog as well. Especially your posts, Ever Wonder What Your Blog Is Saying Behind Your Back? and Community Project: Promoting Others – which should be a must read for all new blog owners.

Come to think of it, why am I not commenting more on your blog???

The same thing happens to me. As I help people, it motivates me to help more.

David,

I’m certain that’s the case.

Perhaps that’s why we’ve connected here in the blogosphere.

I think you’re on to something there, Dawud.

Glad to know you.

Yeah, of course. But does everyone know this? Those who feel empty inside because of their work…are they really motivated by making a difference in the lives of those they work with. Or are their motivations different? No judgment, just asking.

Certainly. And is it safe to say that you were doing your job to help the company and to make a difference in people’s lives as well as make a living?

Absolutely. Me too. My goals are all based in doing good first and making money for doing good second.

David,

Great. It’s a pretty useful plugin, I think. I’ve gotten a little bit of use out of it – though not too much, truthfully.

I love your perspective. I’m very similar. Perhaps that’s why we’ve connected here in the blogosphere – two like souls. Great to know you’re out there.

As for your question. I think I receive more than I give, which is why I always try to increase my giving.

I have a very loving family, a steady income, great friends, a roof over my head, food on the table whenever I want it, all the water I can drink.

There’s nothing I can complain about whatsoever.

Not cheesey at all. I share some of your same ideas about how I make a difference through both my business and my life. Do you feel as though you get as much or more than you give?

As for the plugin…Similar Posts.

Karin H.,

I’m not fond of the whole last point of the statement. Not only the ‘getting’ part, but also the attachment to being returned tenfold. I was going to write this, but felt it took away from what I wanted to say.

Overall, I think giving is only truly giving when the giving is open. Even with clients, they pay for access to me and my knowledge. But I don’t hold anything back from clients. So, in essence, I try to give more that I’ll receive – openly and freely. Yet I still get paid. And I trust and understand that the return on my giving will come in many different ways.

So my thoughts are give and give freely. I guess that’s why blogging works for me.

Gayla,

Thanks. Great to hear. I love when the things we engage in begin to change our inner being. Here’s to you finding and expressing more or your authentic self.

You know, since Aaron started his Simply Successful Secrets meme which then lead to the Gotta Get Goals meme — now this, I’ve done more soul searching and inner reflecting in the last couple of weeks then I’ve done in a very long time.

It’s refreshing!

Making a difference is about giving your best to others in service and getting back tenfold

Is it just me (double Dutch English again) that doesn’t really like the word get in this? Personally I would like to change it to receive back ten fold. ‘Getting’ sounds like: I give, so I am entitled to get ten fold back.

Anyway, meaningful for me is giving myself to my business, to the conversations and relationships I have, without any ‘pre-meditated’ reasons. Of course I would like to earn my money (got to live ), but not for the sake of it. Life is much more pleasant and rewarding this way.

p.s. I would also like to know the answer of David’s off topic question

Helping one person at a time, be it with friendly advice, help with their business, or just someone to listen.

Sure, that sounds cheesey, but I’m not out for myself at all.

Off topic, Dawud, what plugin do you use for your ‘related posts’ and was it hard to implement?